My day was just made. Why? Because I found another full pen of gonal-f in the back of my fridge, which means I don’t have to order any medication again this month. That is excellent. It’s the little things in life, you know?
I kept a rather low profile over the weekend because I just needed to be and get over the epic drop in artificial hormones that occurred after my cycle failed. 900+ estrogen is a long way to fall. But it fell and while it completely blows, right now, it is what it is. In 5 minutes, it might be the end of the world again, but right now, it’s ok.
I went for my scan on Friday expecting a birth control cycle. My ovaries were shockingly huge a week post IUI and as I’d never had so many follicles, I just assumed it would take some extra time to bounce back. My ultrasound tech entered the room and the first thing she asked me was if we had considered IVF any more. I told her that we had decided against it. For that much money out of pocket, we’d want a sure thing and adoption was probably going to be our next step. Every time someone in that office mentions IVF, I’m reminded that we’ve gone through a lot and that we’re most definitely coming to the end of our fertility treatment road.
At the end of our road, it forks. One direction is IVF. It’s tens of thousands of dollars for a chance to become biological parents. It’s an incredibly tempting chance. One that, if our circumstances were different, I might have taken. In the other direction, is discontinuing treatments and accepting that we will never have biological children of our own. That road contains two more forks. Childlessness or adoption. At this point, I’ve worked too hard and put too much of myself into creating a family to choose to live child-free. Our family needs something more.
But. We’re not there yet.
My ovaries, miraculously, were clear. They shouldn’t have been. Sherry couldn’t believe they looked so perfect. She said it should have taken weeks for them to reduce in swelling so much. My body has managed to stump Dr. B’s office again. Excellent.
And so, Dr. B wants to replicate last cycle as best we can. It should have worked, so he said. It was exactly what he wanted to see. The only hiccup? I didn’t have a period before we started our last cycle. I didn’t have a fresh uterine lining. While that shouldn’t have technically mattered, it might have. We’re starting fresh. I’m injecting 112.5 units of gonal-f daily starting yesterday and crossing my fingers and toes for 5 more beautiful follicles. I go in for a scan and bloodwork on Friday.
My goal for the next week or so? Keep busy and try not to think about failing another cycle! Yesterday, I made and froze 21 meals for when the OHSS monster strikes again. I want to keep eating healthy even when I don’t feel good. Having healthy food already made will help me do that. All I have to do is pull it out the night before and put it in the slow cooker in the morning. It couldn’t actually get any easier.
We also replaced the floor in the nursery over the weekend. It looks amazing. I’ll share pictures of it soon.